Hey @Mark270900 - I think I found it 
Here’s a direct link.
The Steps
Start at Digikey > Connectors (Rectangular)
Go to Headers Male pins
Apply filters
- Pitch 3.96mm (thanks @Robert93820)
- Shrouding 2-sides
- no. of positions = 4
As always with parametric search, it pays to apply filters slowly, one-at-a-time so you don’t overconstrain the search.
I’ll leave it as an exercise to find the mating wire connector. Now that you have the family-name of the connector it should be pretty straightforward.
